My Sons Soccer Shower

I don't know how I do the things I do or manage to keep up with life!  The last 2 weeks my dad had a stroke(but doing okay), I was in charge of the WHOLE baby shower except food for 75 people, and my daughter and her family drove 20 hours and stayed with us to help celebrate the shower with my 1st born grandbaby. Now we are just waiting on this baby right here to come out.
Why do my kids choose to have these big baby showers and back to back  (2 months apart) on top of that :/